I flew home to visit family last week and experienced some unusually pleasant customer service from the airline that is striving to “Keep Climbing.” An airline that I had once previously had a very negative experience with — they wrongly accused my 7 year old of stealing a toothbrush kit (no joke) and gave my grandma a hard time for bringing her medical supplies on the plane — turned my perception around after just a 4 hour flight and less than 5 minutes of total human interaction.
It got me thinking – Even just a little NICE goes a long way.
Unfortunately “NICE” sometimes gets a bad rap. I have heard it be associated with words like pushover and indecisive and sucker. There is the old saying, nice guys finish last and there are even books that encourage the opposite of nice because “Nice Girls Don’t Get the Corner office.”
That advice was for a different time.
If we had more nice in business, we would all be better off.
In fact, there is some recent research to support my claim…
A study by the Wharton School of Business reveals that companies like Whole Foods, Southwest, and Costco that receive raves reviews by there clients, employees, and suppliers perform 630% better than the S&P 500.
Not only do companies perform better when they take a more positive approach, but according to research by Gallup we get more done as individuals.
90% of people are more productive when they are surrounded by positive people.
I don’t know about you, but I love it when I uncover strategies for boosting my productivity…
Goodbye snarky, drive by comments that make people feel like crap, hellllllo NICE. 🙂
If you are at this point saying to yourself, “oh crap, I have to be nice? But I like to swear like a sailor… Now what?”
NICE doesn’t mean you sacrifice a get-it-done attitude or sass.
Keep the bits that make you, you. That set you apart. That is non-negotiable.
Take Ashley Ambridge over at The Middle Finger Project. Her business brand is all about giving people the bird, but that doesn’t mean she isn’t nice.
Evidence of Ash’s nice factor here:

And here:

Sure she swears more than my husband and a room full of his army buddies, but she know her stuff, she cares, she gives back, and she goes beyond.
What do you say? Ready to take it up a notch and get back to nice in your business?
Jamie DuBose, the founder and owner of Zenplicity, a premier virtual assistant agency is on board. She has a goal to deliver something her team calls the “WOW FACTOR” in everything they do.
Jamie and her team regularly talk about ways to up their game and WOW their clients. Jamie is building a strategy on how she can WOW her team members. And it isn’t just talk — She is going to measure WOW FACTOR success by checking the pulse of her clients every six months by simply asking them “Does Zenplicity WOW you?”
Even Sir Richard Branson agrees that it is the better way to go (and he has an amazing empire to prove it works).
Are you in?
How will you increase the NICE FACTOR in your business?
Tell us in the comments — I wanna know!
After you comment share this fun infogram I spent way too many hours working on. 🙂












Nice does not mean being a doormat. In order for nice (and kind, generous, loving, inspiring, compassionate) to work in business it needs to be balanced with healthy boundaries, authenticity, confidence, strength & standing happily & joyfully in your sexy kitten heels of empowerment.
Caroline – Yes, yes, yes. Balance is critical all around. Your comment is a wonderful addition to this post. I am so glad it was the first.
“Nice does not mean being a doormat.” 100% agree!
Awesome post, Amber!
Love the info graph and think this post is chok full of good advice. Of course my mild love affair with The Middle Finger Project’s Ash doesn’t hurt. Nice work Amber. I’d love if more business owners took this approach.
Great post Amber – and I completely agree! Loved the Ashley Ambridge tie-in, that is a perfect example of how you don’t have to sacrifice who you are to be nice.
I pride myself of letting nice be the cornerstone of my work. And I’m hardly a doormat.
I pride myself of leaving anyone else who isn’t nice in their work.
I appreciate your post!
Thanks, Randi!! I appreciate you and every word you write (here and everywhere else on the interwebs).
LOVE!
Thx!!
I think nice is definately the new normal in business. At least from where I’m hanging out. I’ll definately be reflecting over the next few days to see what else I can do to be super nice in business 🙂
YES! I totally agree – NICE has been thrown under the bus in favor of “Powerful” – but they’re not mutually exclusive :).
Love the post and great infograph!
Amber hits the jackpot! Its always all the little things in business. I find that even when I add Beautiful to my greeting in an email it makes an impression on the other person. Super compassion and kindness is one of my UAPs. It works, its me and I don’t have to be nasty because I’m not. Its nice to clear up the difference between lovelyness and pushover peeps. Juts because you are nice doesn’t mean you cant run and business and have boundaries. 🙂
Love this, and great example with the middle finger project! Nice isn’t the same as baby bunny. Nice is really about empathy and sympathy. It’s about putting ourselves into the shoes of another and seeing life from their perspective.
Love this advice. As my business continues to grow and I choose to take more clients on that I don’t necessarily click with 100% the article reminded me to just be nice. Simple and easy to do advice. Thanks for that!
Great article… Loved it!
This article (and the comments) completely resonated — I’m a freelancer who often works on site and Nice is #2 behind Valuable as keys to keeping work coming in the door. Great piece!
Valuable Nice —- I like it!
Great Post. I’m going share this in my link round up.
Thanks so much for sharing, Trinidad!
Love this Amber! I couldn’t agree more! And you did an awesome job on the infograph. 🙂 Hmm.. now I need to think of ways to bring even more niceness into my business. Love the wow-factor survey idea from zenplicity. xx
I know! Zenplicity has it going on!